Upstate New York · 125 Private Acres
Three days. No curfew. For the couple who lives to entertain.
See the Weekend
One Estate.
Zero Boundaries.
3
Days, No Curfew
80+
Guests On-Site
1
Wedding at a time
27
Weddings Per Year
125
Private Acres
The Gilbertsville distinction
Luxury defined by the
depth
At Gilbertsville Farmhouse, we believe true luxury is found in the unhurried rhythm of a private 125-acre residency.
of the experience.
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This is the Ultimate Multi-Day Takeover, where every element is designed to give your weekend room to breathe, unfold, and become something your guests reference for the rest of their lives.
We don’t just host events; we steward the creation of an
a three-day immersion for your inner circle where the schedule disappears, high-fashion design meets the raw beauty of the Catskills, and the celebration has no limits.
emotional heirloom,
The full experience
The art of the
takeover.
This isn't a venue rental. It's a multi-day estate residency — where the schedule disappears and the experience takes over. Here's what three days at Gilbertsville actually feels like.
A slow morning on the estate. A farewell brunch. One last walk down to the beach. No rush, because the best part of giving your people a full weekend is that it ends on your terms — with everyone full, rested, and already asking about the next one.
Linger a Little Longer
Sunday
By the time your inner circle arrives on Friday morning, the 3.5-hour drive pays its first dividend: the total surrender to a private, weekend-long residency.
Our distance ensures your guests aren't just attending, they are inhabiting your world.
Here, Friday night isn't just a rehearsal; it’s the moment the outside world officially stops reaching you.
Arrive & Settle In
Friday
Saturday breathes with anticipation as the estate transforms into the most anticipated event of your social season. Lead your guests from the raw beauty of the landscape into the glamour of your stylized reception, personalized to exude your energy.
Celebrating over a multi-course dinner and gushing toasts, your guests will feel the love and emotion you could never put into words.
Dance into the next day and eventually under the stars. The after-hours that doesn't end. Your guests will never forget this night.
Your Day, Entirely
Saturday
Event Spaces & Lodging
125 acres of
possibility
The Chandelier Barn
INDOOR RECEPTION · UP TO 250 GUESTS
Hilltop Cathedral
OUTDOOR CEREMONY
The Milking Parlor
COCKTAIL HOUR & DINING
The Farmhouse Inn
ON-SITE LODGING
The Private Lake & Beach
ESTATE GROUNDS
Luxury
with a pulse
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what makes this different
Your venue is the
whole weekend.
Most weddings are a day. Yours will be three. Here's what that actually looks like.
No other weddings that weekend. No strangers at breakfast. No competing events. The entire 125-acre property belongs to your guest list from Friday arrival to Sunday checkout.
Exclusively yours.
VS. EVERY OTHER VENUE
To Start
41 private suites across 4 lodging types — from safari glamping tents to boutique farmhouse suites. Your people wake up Saturday morning still in the story.
Your Closest guests stay on-site.
vs. hotel blocks
Friday rehearsal dinner. Saturday ceremony and reception. Sunday farewell brunch. No quiet hours, your on-site guests can stay up all night.
Three days, no curfew.
vs. single-day events
Our chefs cook farm-to-table meals using ingredients from local Catskills farms. Every meal, all weekend. Your guests will be talking about Saturday dinner for months.
Food worth talking about.
vs. catered events
Owners and staff are on-site every weekend. This is their home. No shift employees. They'll know your name before you arrive — and still know your guests' names at the farewell brunch.
A family, not a staff.
vs. corporate venues
Kayaking, goat yoga, hammock park, the private beach, lawn games, and a bonfire every night. Your guests will have more fun on Friday than most wedding guests have all day Saturday.
Goat yoga. Bonfires. More.
vs. boring Saturdays
"Gilbertsville Farmhouse has cultivated a team of passionate professionals who make every moment feel effortless — and every guest feel at home."
— Stevie & Marcus · Summer Wedding
Our Story
We are the
Boustanis.
We're a family raised in New York City and rooted in the Catskills. That means we bring the energy, taste, and polish of the city — and the warmth, heart, and soul of the country.
At Gilbertsville Farmhouse, every wedding is personal because this place is personal. Aldo and Sharon curated a team don't manage your event from a distance — they're here, on the property, invested in your weekend as if it were their own.
Co-Owner & Builder
Aldo
Co-Owner & Host
Sharon
Meet the Family →
A property built with one value in mind: The Sobremesa — the Latin tradition of lingering at the table long after the meal ends. When no one wants to leave. When the conversation is the whole point. We built 125 acres around that feeling.
As Seen In & Recognized By
Brides
The Knot
Martha Stewart Weddings
Vogue
New York Magazine
The search
ends
You always knew a place like this existed. Let's talk about your weekend.
